“I’m newly single after a breakup/divorce and am terrified at the thought of dating again! I never dreamed I would be back on the dating scene and don’t know where to start. Help!” – Jane Doe

Getting back into the dating world is a pretty tall order after being out of it for years. Things have changed! Your feelings have changed, your needs have changed. Suddenly you are back out there after you felt secure that you would never have to deal with dating again! But here you are, back in the game, back in the dating world without a clue.

Enter Kim and Mike! We are here to launch you back into the dating world with confidence and direction! We are both dating gurus that are here to guide you in your journey to find the perfect man!

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A heartfelt message from Kim

I was madly in love with my husband for 12 years and never in a million years thought that we would end up going through a bitter divorce.  I was scared, lonely, angry, and had no idea what to do next.  I blindly stepped into the dating world and failed miserably.  My friends and family kept telling me it would get better but it got worse with time!  I thought being pretty, intelligent, nice, and well dressed was enough.  It wasn’t, I tried therapy, coaching, and dating books but nothing worked for me. Until I met Mike the Master Dater…

How a Master Dater changed my dating life!

Mike was a guest on my radio show “Divorce Guru.”  The topic was how to date successfully after a divorce.  Instead of interviewing Mike for the benefit of my world wide listeners I dropped my professional radio host hat and started asking Mike what the heck I was doing wrong in my dating life!

Someone to answer your dating questions…

After we were off-air Mike told me I could call him anytime with any dating questions.  I said thank you impressed that he was willing to help, but not wanting to be a bother, until…

• I went on a seemingly great date never to get called back
• A cute guy suggested sex right away
• A “friend” kept sending me filthy text messages
• I asked a guy out and it failed miserably…
• The guy went dutch on the bill and pulled out a calculator!
• My online profile kept attracting FREAKS!
• I kept meeting married men that wanted to sleep with me.

Mike was always there for me and now WE want to return the favor to you.

Men do NOT think like women…

Mike responded to all of my “newly broken up” and “newly dating again” questions with answers that I would never have guessed!  But Mike is a man (a straight man) and was telling me exactly what the men I went on dates with were thinking…and not thinking! I really had no idea what was going on initially and without Mike’s help I would have never made it so far, so fast.

Everyone needs a guide to lead the way…

I told Mike “I wish all my girlfriends, listeners and readers, had someone like you to guide them and give them the lowdown on what they should and shouldn’t do when it comes to dating and men.” Mike replied, “Why don’t we write a book?”  126 pages and 50,000 words later, the guide was born!

You probably assumed you would be with this one man forever, only to find that “happily ever after” usually doesn’t mean forever

Confused and stressed…

Many women that have come out of long term commitments are usually confused, under stress, and lonely, which can lead to bitterness and low self-esteem.  A HUGE turn off to wonderful, loving potential men who want to fall in love with you!

What do you mean, I have to date again!?

No one makes a long term commitment to the man they love thinking one day it will lead to going your separate ways and looking for love again. But it happens.  A lot.

Confidence is key…

No doubt you’ve discovered that there is a lot more to getting back in the dating game than just slapping on a cute dress and going out to dinner with a guy!  Stress, negative emotion, and lack of confidence keep newly single women from knowing how to have fun and meet great guys when it comes to dating the second time around.  This is where we come in to show you how to get rid of the negative and start reveling in the positive!

The key to success in the dating world is the unshakable confidence that you deserve the best!

Miracles are waiting to happen for you!

This book will show you how to:

• Heal from the pain of no longer being in a committed relationship
• Gain amazing confidence when it comes to dating second time around
• Discover the hidden changes in the “new” dating world
• Uncover the secret to finding men you want!
• Discover why you should give online dating a try
• Know what to expect and demand with Sex!
• Who are the Good guys, Who are the bad guys??
• Become a serious pro at the dating game
• Understand what’s up with casual sex
• Set powerful intentions to get the guy you want

Don’t wait to date. Find the perfect guy NOW!

This amazing book is interactive! and we have created 9 awesome videos

We have created 9 awesome videos to supplement the book. This is an extra 90 minutes of really specific advice on some of our tougher subjects.

The 9 videos address the often bewildering areas of:

1. How long should you wait to date?
2. Asking him out: Yes or No?
3. Who Pays for the date?
4. Exploring your sexuality
5. Sexual Tension!
6. Setting boundaries (aka not putting up with his bulls**t!)
7. Dealing with anger and projection
8. When should you introduce the kids?
9. What’s a mini date?

The videos are informative, fun, and provide you insight on important topics that you’ll need for your new life!

Take a look at one of our videos here! (Yeah I know, Mike swears a lot)

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This could be your life…

Imagine having the confidence of dating again without the overwhelming fear of being hurt.
Imagine the fun you will have accepting dates from great guys who truly want to get to know you.
Imagine laughing, talking, and kissing a handsome man who you LOVE being with.
Imagine your days and nights filled with fun activities with fun date partners.
Imagine a genuine, loving relationship with a man who adores you and would do anything to make you smile.

I’m proof…

I am living breathing proof that “Getting Back on the Horse after Breakup or Divorce” works!  I’ve made the mistakes (all of them), gained the experience, and bugged Mike, almost daily for a year! Use my life as an example of healing which can lead to a better life than you could imagine for yourself…and the dates I have had! Amazing…

Today, I am happier, uber confident in the dating world and have discovered the inner workings of men’s minds and emotions better than I did when I was married!

Don’t wait to date! Find the perfect guy NOW!

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You deserve the best…now let us guide you there!

Click here to take a look a few pages of the book

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Don’t wait to date! Find the perfect guy NOW!

Want to know more about the book?

It is in a beautiful PDF format

It is 124 pages and 50,000 words, which is about the equivalent to a 150-200 page paperback. So in other words it is PACKED with information!

Just to show you how much we cover here are all chapters in the book

Introduction – Why we can help you
Moving on – Are you ready to date again?
Taking responsibility – Your first step to healing
Support and healing – Move past the pain
How about a rebound? – Maybe you should wait
Dating the right guy – Don’t repeat past mistakes
What not to do – Moving past lunacy
Getting your game on – Confidence is the key
Getting good at the game – How to be the most attractive you
Setting your intention – Knowing what you want
Time to get sexy – How important is the physical?
What who where?
The Who – Who stinks, who doesn’t
The where – Dating logistics
Dating has changed and hasn’t – Technology
Dating details – The mini date and exit strategy
Please stop – top 10 mistakes
Talking about the Ex – How to pull it off
Let’s talk about sex – about time!
Conclusion – Ready to get in the game!

Sounds good? Why not take a deeper look?

Click here to take a look a few pages of the book

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But wait! that’s not all! (Cue sham wow guy!)

Mike has been nice enough to throw something else in with the book.

ANOTHER BOOK!

Mike is the author of another awesome ebook on the topic of texting. Why do you need this?? because the world is a different place now and texting is one of the most useful dating tools I know of. Reading Mike’s texting book was very very eye opening for me and certainly helped me up my texting game but it taught me how to date better in general. This is why I asked Mike to include his book with our offer.

Included with Back on the Horse will be the first 20 pages of TextAppeal Mike’s ebook. If you like it and you want to learn more Mike has been kind enough to put a 50% discount code ONLY for readers of Back on the Horse.

I learned so much from Mike’s book and I know it is something that will help prepare you even more for what is to come while you get back on the horse!

I was married for 8 years and we were together for almost 10. We split up almost two years ago. That being said, what I simply love about Mike and Kim’s book is that they are EFFECTIVE in their proposal to help you move on. When we get divorced there is too much going on: broken hearts, broken dreams, family feelings, failed expectations… It’s isn’t easy to find an honest and neutral person to talk to. Our friends and family most of the times are biased or they have no clue what the whole situation is, or sometimes we just don’t feel like talking… which was my case

Every person has his or her own unique experience after splitting up, but Kim describes and analyses beautifully the most effortless process of healing and then challenges us to move on, to truly heal.  Mike gives us a piercing male perspective that leaves you reeling with truth. The two are an excellent combination, people I wish I knew in person.

The videos are fantastic! Having the chance to relate the book’s lessons in another medium is genius! It’s almost a chat between friends and the lessons hit home!

I wish I had read this book 2 years ago, it would have helped me tremendously during my healing process, but even now, I’m making the most of it!!! No miracles are promised, but it’s a complete step by step process with the help of two real life experts: Kim Hess (the divorce guru) with her own divorce experience proving that there is successful life after a divorce and Mike Masters, sharing with us the precious insight of a single guy/dating guru (and that’s pretty amazing inside information!!!) – Rachel R.

I absolutely love Kim’s personality.  She is amazing, beautiful, and understands the female psyche.  Not to mention has great style. I found that the author’s mention of forgiveness was really profound, because it gave you a reason to forgive…. that is, it would better yourself.  Holding onto that anger only gives you less control over your life than what you would want. The reasons people hold onto anger is because they feel that it is a sense of control over their lives that they don’t have.  But they don’t realize that the ex has that control over their own emotions, and they not forgiving do not have control.

I absolutely love the male/female point of view.  You not only have a man who has never been married, but also you have a woman who has been married with kids and is back in the dating game.  You have both a man who understands women [rare], and a woman who has been through the chaos of divorce. Mike and Kim have tons of experience and wisdom, that helped me get back in the game.  I highly recommend this book. – Lindsey M.

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You guys did a amazing job!
The book was simple and so funny to read, but by no means simplistic in its content.
I felt (like I am sure many people did..)  that I could totally relate to all  the topics covered, they gave me so much to think about and learn from.
My new mantra from Mike will be “man chasers, woman choosers” and I started successfully implementing the concept already!
I take stock of every conversation I have with a man, and ask myself if I felt like was choosing or being chased?
It’s an empowering feeling and it works,because it changes the dynamic of the conversation.
So happy I got a chance to read the book, it was entirely my pleasure. – Patrizia P.

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I LOVE YOU GUYS! I am already back in the dating scene and doing well. So happy you made this and so happy you made it together. I have to admit that if it were just Mike laying down the advice it would be hard to swallow but because you are there Kim, it makes all the difference. I know deep down that what Mike explains is true but it is so hard to hear, having you back up everything he says and add your own spice to the mix is not only invaluable but it gets results. Results that I am proud to say are paying out today. I am dating a couple of guys at the moment and I feel totally confident this time around. I can feel that I am healing and certainly back in the game!

After 8 years of marriage I was totally terriefied to date again. Now I feel totally confident and comfortable to get back on the horse! (Love you Kim! you to Mike, wink!) – Jessica B.

“Getting Back on the Horse after breakup or Divorce!” provides a well rounded perspective about healing and dating after the pain of divorce.  Kim Hess provides the perspective of a divorced mom who has her own story of recovering after her divorce while helping other women move forward through her work as a “Divorce Guru.”  Co-Author Mike Masters rounds out the perspective by providing insights into the male psyche as well as sharing dating advice from his many experiences as a “Master Dater.”  You will feel empowered to move forward and get back into the dating world again after learning and laughing with these two authors. I highly recommend this book to the point of recommending it to my thousands of readers, very well worth the purchase! – Tina Tobin founder of www.luvemorleavem.com

Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. Kim and Mike have really opened my eyes to my personal insanity.
I took a whole new look at my life, and that I value. The real bonus is that I had a great time reading it. Mike and Kim a have been blogging for years and know how to present material in a really funny digestible way. This wont be one of those books that you never finish. – TSR

Well I’d like to say that I really enjoyed this book!  I was first intrigued to read it because of the unique approach of it being written by both a divorced woman and a pretty wild guy.  But what really got me was the potent combination of rock-solid advice, experience, balls to wall truths, and humor.  Thanks for a great read.  This book has definitely given me a lot to think about, even more than a year out from a divorce.  When’s the sequel?! -Emily

OMG, thank you guys!  I am 24 and recently broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years and felt miserable and sad.  I loved him and thought we would get married, have kids, and be together forever.  He broke up with me and I saw my future life go down the toilet. I didn’t know what to do and didn’t think I’d find anyone else to love.  I read “Getting Back on the Horse After Breakup or Divorce” and wow!  It helped me get the confidence I needed for me and helped me start dating again-and know what to do on those dates!  You two are funny and very smart when it comes to relationships and what to do right.  Thanks so much for writing this book.  Oh, and I love the videos!  -Denise

“Getting Back on the Horse After Breakup or Divorce” provides knowledge into not only the proper way to date successfully,but also valuable insight into the inner workings of how to get over the divorce or breakup.  Mike and Kim provide smart, witty commentary on expanding your confidence and feeling valuable as a person as well as to prospective dating partners.  I highly recommend this book to every woman of any age.
-Sylvia F.

…just a quick email to say thanks for all the support and knowledge I learned from your book.  i am now dating a great guy and am the happiest I’ve ever been. ..
many thanks,
Tonya

I love the video portion!  I watched all the videos before I even started reading the book because I was learning so much.  I want to say if anyone is on the fence about buying this great product DO IT!!!  You will not be sorry.  I had kinda lost all hope, but I know there is hope now.  I feel like Kim totally knows what I’m going through, and Mike totally lets me know what these guys I’m dating are thinking.  I would have made some MAJOR mistakes if it weren’t for t his awesome book!
-Cheryl

After my divorce I was very sad and very lonely.  Even though I was the one who filed for divorce, does not mean it hurt any less.  I started dating soon after and kept getting hurt over and over not realizing why.  After reading your book it hit me like a ton of bricks that I was doing EVERYTHING wrong!  I am a smart, professional woman with two degrees, yet I was completely uneducated when it came to men and dating.
I wanted to write to express my gratitude.  I will recommend this to all the women I know divorced or not!
-Jennifer B.

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A little bit about the authors:

Kim Hess is a:

Divorcee
Mother of Two
Radio Show Host
Well known Relationship Blogger
Divorce Columnist
Advice Panel Expert Vlogger
And Avid Dater

I’ve been in your shoes and write and talk about relationships, dating and sex.  In fact I breathe relationships, dating and sex! I’m a woman who wants other women to have fun and enjoy their lives while eating good chocolate and champagne!

Mike Masters is an:

Author of three books and counting
Relationship/Dating coach
Life coach
Top Ranked Relationship Blogger
Nutritionist
Marathoner

Mike has all the answers, I mean really! I have never run into anyone that knows so much about the psychology of relationships. Combine this with his life coaching background and you have someone that can fine tune this area of your life like no other.